Men must be taught as if you taught them not and things unknown proposed as things forgot.
You cannot teach a man anything; you can only help him find within himself.
Lord Chesterfield advised his son :
Be wiser than other people if you can but do not tell them so.
Well Well now this is what I say :
Why not do it on the way that can be the best with everyone??
Why a challenge?? Do it another way...
Thats a challenge. It arouses the opposition feeling of battle or violence.
Do it on the way that is comfortable with all.