This is it

If you want to gather honey don't kick over the beehive.

Arguement...

The best way to get best out of an arguement is stop it.

Do know it:

"If there is any one secret of sucess, it lies in the ability to get the other person's point of view and see things from that persons side as well as from your side."

One of the famous persons said that

"Every man I meet is my superior some way. In that, I learn of him."

GIVE HONEST AND SINCERE APPRECIATION.

Hey , Read this a beautiful good one:

I have cut out and pasted on my mirror where I cannot help but see it every day..... I shall pass this way but once; any good , therefore that I can do or qany kindness that I can show to any human being, let me do it now. Let me not defer nor neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again...

Here are some saying by famous persons

Alexander Pope said:

Men must be taught as if you taught them not and things unknown proposed as things forgot.

Galileo said:

You cannot teach a man anything; you can only help him find within himself.

Lord Chesterfield advised his son :

Be wiser than other people if you can but do not tell them so.

Well Well now this is what I say :

Why not do it on the way that can be the best with everyone??

Why a challenge?? Do it another way...
Thats a challenge. It arouses the opposition feeling of battle or violence.
Do it on the way that is comfortable with all.